24 February …

More thoughts in the time of COVID-19 …

Still cold, but not as cold as some places.  And intermittent snow.  In fact, last thursday Mark and the family went to Medford and Siskiyou Summit was socked in with fog and snow.  Trucks and cars were slipping and sliding and I-5 was closed on and off during the day due to traffic accidents.  But they stayed safe and arrived home little the worse for the adventure.

After the snow problem (?) last week, we have had nothing worse than wind and showers.  

This morning the sun is bright and I anticipate melting.

Paul and I are alone looking after each other.  Kamille and Mark were in Medford overnight.  They left early yesterday afternoon and will be home sometime this afternoon.  So last evening we watched a Winnie the Pooh movie about heffalumps after a dinner of Italian meatballs, rice pasta, corn, carrots, and green salad.  This morning was orange juice, oatmeal, peaches, milk, and tea.  This afternoon we make a trip to the library and eat out (probably Burger King).

~~~

Next friday (the 26th) will be Paul’s last day of distance school.  It will seem strange doing without his activity around the house every day.  But he will be happy.  He needs more to do and interperson contact to stave off the boredom of looking at a Chromebook screen and playing with only his parents and the dog.  

It certainly will have an impact on the household routine.

~~~

One day last week Mark emailed me a link to a YouTube site about the engineering of Beatles music for recordings.  Wow!  It seems it is possible to electronically move pitch all over the place … from what we all know (music in c, a, b, etc with sharps and flats) to things like “A half sharp major +43 cent” and
Bflat major -12) with something called Varispeed.  Want to know more? 

ttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgtzOafdoOQ&ab_channel=DavidBennettPiano

Be careful.  It might blow your mind … and then lead you on a chase of interesting sites all over YouTube.  I got lost for nearly two hours with Beatles stuff and who remembers what else and finally logged off from something about all the types of twins.  Don’t ask how I got there from being wowed by the fact that you can never hear Beatles music in concert which is the same as on a CD unless they lip sync it to the myriad types of twins that are possible.  Maybe try it yourself and see where you end up.

~~~

Monday was a fix-it day.  The snow had melted enough that I will be able to drive out this afternoon.  Mark changed up the battery (it’s a hybrid) and moved it so I can access the driveway easily.  That’s how we will be going to the library and Burger King this afternoon.  I can’t remember exactly but it has been more than two weeks since I was last out to air the stink off, as Grandma Tyler would say.  I’m excited.  There are five books waiting for me at the library.  

I’m just finishing “Lammas Night” for the umteenth time after finding some new insights.   And there is scifi, mysteries, and “How to Raise an Elephant” waiting for me.  It’s going to be an exciting few reading days.

~~~

I’ve already told you about yesterday, so here’s something to think about for now …  and give a try if you’re a poet and then … ’til next week …

17 February …

More thoughts in the time of COVID-19 …

Last wednesday was a rough one for this household, as you are aware from last week’s blog.  

Mark had a sudden onset of edema, redness, and severe pain in his left knee tuesday evening.  His knees are compromised by years of policing so knee problems are chronic.  However, I don’t recall ever seeing him in such crippling pain.

He was directed to an urgent care clinic by his insurance company.  We don’t use the local emergency facilities any longer for anything pain related since their first reaction is to brand you a druggie as they did me when lower back pain had me nearly crawling to the toilet.

The diagnosis was probably gout but secondary diagnosis was septic arthritis which can be deadly.  He came home with an R for a heavy duty antibiotic and some pain control.  Tuesday night he had slept very little, but wednesday night he was able to get some rest so everyone slept better.

By thursday morning the fever was down, as was the edema, and the pain was greatly reduced.  So it wasn’t gout. 

It has been a stressful time for us all.  Things, while not back to normal, are very much improved.  He is now walking without a cane.  Thank you all for the support I felt.

~~~

Also last week the south Pacific was rocking and rolling.  The final count was a slew of quakes between 6.0 and 7.2, most in the Loyalty Islands region east of northern Australia, but also a real shaker in Japan.  The Ring of Fire is on the move.

I do keep an eye on the Ring since we live just across a valley from a dormant volcano (Mt Shasta which has a fumarole, a boiling hot spring, on its western side) and just slightly southeast of an overdue plate subsidence zone (the Cascadia fault off the southern Oregon coast).

~~~

 Another storm hit us thursday but lasted only one day … wind and rain.  It was back on sunday with wind from all directions.  The snowfall never got too heavy and there were periods of sun.  

Light overnight snow (less than an inch both sunday and monday mornings) accompanied by melting during the day.

Maybe the blizzard from a couple of weeks ago will be it for this winter.

~~~

Last friday was the first day of Asian New Year, the Year of the Metal Ox.   New Moon was at noon.  However, the celebrations via the internet at the Joss House in Weaverville (a few miles west of Redding) began at 1100.  In the past, the Joss House had done Lunar New Year up well with firecrackers and lion dances and dim sum and dumplings and …

This year the California Parks Department (or Commission or whatever the State group is called) did it on Zoom.  Not the same, but better than nothing.

The man who is the talking head for the displays at the visitors’ center was on camera telling about customs and displays and demonstrating how to make a five pointed lantern.  There were videos with three women who teach Mandarin at local colleges talking about their childhood memories of  family holiday celebrations in China.  And, of course, a video of a Lion Dance from a past year.  It was fun … yellow and red and blue and green and white two person Lions who twitched their tails, jumped high, and ate goodies out of spectators’ hands.  All to the accompaniment of drumming and rattles and bells.  

I’ve been to the Joss House once in the past before the extensive refurbishment was done.  I would like to go again some time.

~~~

Once a week, the family tries to have a “family movie night” which can be a challenge with three and a half generations and their varied movie preferences.  This week we watched The Tuskegee Airmen (available on the internet), based on the first African-American combat pilots in the United States Army Air Corps who fought in World War II.  I remember similar propaganda movies from the actual war years (30 Seconds Over Tokyo and 12 O’Clock High to name only a couple), but this is based on truth and is a good movie.  

The actual history of the pilots of the 332nd “heroes of the night” is impressive … more than 800+ medals and, as escort fighters for bomber runs over Europe, they never lost a bomber.

Impressive … and history worth knowing.

~~~

 I was talking with a friend whom I haven’t been able to actually visit lately.  Sort of a virtual visit.  And she had an interesting observation.  She said that, due to COVID regulations and self-protection, it has been so long since she has been in an actual social situation that she’s not sure she remembers how to behave in one.

We know nothing will be the same once this is past, but I wonder just how much social encounters will have changed.  Elbow bumps rather than handshakes?  Avoidance of casual hugs?  Air kisses?

And those thoughts led to musings on the use of the word love.  It is used for so many things or relationships lately that I wonder if it has been diluted to the point of near meaninglessness (is that a word?).  People say they love colors, entertainers, sport stars, pictures, aromas, books, foods, views, ideas, etc., etc., etc. (you name it, someone loves it) to the point that when someone is told I love whatever or whomever, just exactly what is meant?  Is it real love or is it appreciation or acknowledgement or pleasure or understanding.  And even when used to indicate real emotional intent, does it mean having a crush on or being in love with or enjoying a sexual episode or being part of a long term, mutual relationship or ???

I find I use the word love sparingly and with specific intent just as I have many acquaintances but a limited number of real friends (some of whom I love).

~~~

I recently joined an alumni group for my high school graduating class (class of ‘47).  We are dying off and I thought I’d see how many of us had found the same alumni site.

I was already in touch with two classmates and today heard from a third.  I know there was a fourth somewhere up north but have no contact information.  Maybe he’s gone too.  Seventy-seven of us graduated.  I hope there are more than four of us left.  We’re all in our 90s now (I was one of the two youngest in the class and Rose Lee is already gone).

However, the email from Ruth Ellen Duncan was a pleasure.  I correspond with Jim Anderson regularly and with Diane Lipking occasionally, so now there will be 3 of us in touch. 

Gifts come in unexpected packages.

~~~

Fast Tuesday meant pancakes for supper with Noo Orlens jazz on the radio.  We then watched “The Princess and the Frog”.  I’d never seen it.  Fun, laughs, and good music (especially the alligator who plays trumpet).  Songs by Randy Newman (!) and Tiana voiced by a favorite actress of George’s and mine (Anika Noni Rose).  The animation is pleasing after so much pixel style, and I particularly liked the Shadow Man (Baron Samedi, Doctor Facilier), so suavely sinister.

It might turn into a tradition … George and I had some traditional movies.

Early May = Midway; July 4th = Gettysburg; December 7th = Tora Tora Tora; Christmas Eve = Tales of Hoffman from 1951 with Helpmann losing his footing and Massine losing his bow and Sherer’s disembodied leg still kicking and Tcherina coming down those stairs and Nicklaus and so much more; New Year’s Eve = Kiri Tekanawa and Hermann Prey’s Die Fledermaus from 1984; and New Year’s Day = the  Wiener Philharmoniker New Year’s Concert.  

That tradition sort of fell by the wayside following George’s death but I’m ready to revive it.  Fortunately, I have the DVDs.  Now I need to get a copy of Tiana’s movie.

~~~

The family has already left to facilitate Ash Wednesday’s online sharing of the Ash Wednesday service at the church and here’s a thought for the morning … 

Strive to be first …

First to nod

First to smile

First to greet

First to share

First to help

First to compliment

So … ‘til next week … 

10 February …

More thoughts in the time of COVID-19 …

I’m late … and here’s why.

Last evening Mark, my son, began having pain in one of his knees.  That isn’t too unusual since he spent more than 20 years as a police officer doing street foot patrols and later car patrols and situations too often ended up with him running on cement.  Poor knees took a pounding.

But last night the pain increased with edema and inflammation.  He slept very little. 

This morning, as soon as possible, he contacted his primary caregiver by phone and was told his symptoms could possibly be sepsis and if not treated promptly could spread system wide.  So he and Kamille took off to see a specialist right away.  Paul and I have been waiting to hear what is happening, but so far (1255) no report.

Part of what follows was written yesterday afternoon/evening.

~~~

As you may know, I keep a Grat Jar and every evening I put in a slip of paper noting something from the day which gave me pleasure.  Today (tuesday) it was seeing the morning sun on the snow.   The snow, particularly fresh snow, reflects the sun beams into rainbows … not just diamonds.  If you have never seen a field full of diamonds and rubies and emeralds and garnets and topaz and citrine and …  too bad.  It is a sight you would remember. 

And speaking of morning sun … this time of year, at this latitude, the sun movement at sunrise, south to north, appears to speed up.  From its rising place at Winter Solstice to now it has moved from just barely coming in my east window to being far north enough to catch the crystals hanging there and creating rainbows on the opposite wall in my bedroom. 

I need more crystals.

The other thing noticeable in the early morning is the sound of the trains as they pass just the other side of the ridge to the south of here.  Amtrak comes through about 0500 (give or take) going north followed soon by a freight going south.  The double track for passing is a bit to the north northeast.

This evening the Grat note said “snow jewels” and “train sounds”.

~~~

Our mornings have been chilly (although not enough to match the -9°f my cousin in Chicago noted).  So chilly in fact that when I go out to let the hens out the chicken door is frozen shut.  Getting it open requires banging on it with a stick.  

Some mornings the hens rush to the door, take a look out, and turn around to stay inside.  However, for the last few days they have been coming out to forage the kitchen scraps.  That’s good since the leftover old salad greens Kamille brings home, from the preparation of take-home lunches the school is still providing for kids, seem to be favorites … particularly with Picasso.  Remember Picasso?  The hen with the mismatched beak?  She is very loquacious when there are greens to scatter.

~~~

Last wednesday Mark went by the library while he was out and picked up the books I had on hold.  I now have enough books to last a week or two.  By then the snow will have melted enough for me to get out in the low-rider I drive.  Among my haul this time was another mystery set in early 20th century Manhattan (this time in Chinatown), the second Earthseed book by Octavia E. Butler, “the Archer” by Coel, and another Tudor era mystery.

The Butler book, classified as dystopian sci-fi, was written in the late 90s, and is eerily prophetic.  It is set between 2016 and the mid-2030s.  The US population has divided into three distinct  groups … the ruling zealots, the lowest of the low, and the majority in the middle who recognize the “dystopia” but just want to keep what they have and stay out of the crosshairs.  It is an interesting read if you don’t mind being made to think.

~~~

Paul, like many children, has been missing the interaction with peers since the lockdown and snow have kept him housebound.  Last saturday he had a day out.  

There is a fairly new Community Center in Weed which has an indoor pool.  It isn’t anywhere near Olympic size, but it is a pool.  The local swim team, of which Paul has been a member for two summers, made an agreement with the Center to allow a training session.  The kids were sorted by age and experience and allowed into the water in controlled groups. 

He had a great time.  We’re hoping they will be able to do it on a regular basis.

~~~

Paul had a birthday, his 9th, on the 29th.  He asked for pizza for dinner and a cheesecake for dessert.  Mark made the pizza (which was three kinds of meat and a lot of veggies).  Then last sunday, Tyler came out with a cheesecake to top all cheesecakes.  He said it was “New York” style and required 8 packs of cream cheese.  I believe it.  It was huge.  At least four inches high and delicious.  I sort of wish it had been my birthday.  I would have hoarded.  

Such simple gifts, but far superior to the common overspending in this society.

The drum set is in use, however reluctantly.  He practices using classes available on YouTube.  I will pass on George’s street sticks as soon as he reaches the age where he will “keep” them and not let them get lost or damaged.  George had burned his name and rank (Sgt in the high school ROTC) on them.

~~~

Last monday I had a glorious surprise.  In a box of miscellany I has received (via a nephew) there was a deteriorating kit bag full of maps (both allied and German), a “diary”, and copies of military orders which dated to my father-in-law’s service with the Illinois 33rd, 129th Infantry during the final 100 day battle of World War I. 

Mark and I thought the National Archives was where they belonged, but when I approached the Archives the offer was “regrettably” declined.  The reason given was that they didn’t seem to be anything the Archives would find of interest.  

That was over a month ago.  That reasoning seemed strange, but why argue.  So I began looking for someplace to donate them where they would be preserved and available to historians.  

I tried the WWI Museum in Missouri and they wanted us to unfold them and take pictures.  That bothered me since they are so old and fragile.

Then I tried Fold3, a genealogical website,  and they too wanted a photo display.

I felt, and still feel, that opening them, unfolding them, and then refolding them was asking for trouble.  They are so old and fragile.  I decided to do nothing right away.  They need to be handled by folks who are trained in preservation.

Then last monday I opened my email to find a letter from a National Archive cartographer.  He apologized for the delay in responding to my offer and asked for background information.  Wow !!!

Who knows the level of the employee who responded to my offer originally, but the cartographers in College Park Maryland seemed to be interested.

I immediately sent genealogical information and Mark sent what he could remember seeing when he and I looked at a few of them before we decided we needed to leave further examination to experts.  His information included that they are “sourced from US Army, French Automobile Association, and the ‘Central Powers’ and detail the area around the battle lines formed in France and Belgium during the 100 Days Offensive, which ended WWI.   –   The Central Powers maps are marked in handwritten German and indicate such things as forward bases, trench lines, and artillery.   –   Included with the maps is a notebook, in which personal notes indicating training in basic intelligence are found, as well as demobilization orders.”

The response came tuesday evening.  Thanks but no thanks.  They didn’t think the maps etc. were acceptable … “Although your father-in-law’s artifacts are historically valuable, we do not believe them to be permanent federal records and as a result, we cannot presently accept them.

I still think the decision is ill advised, but will continue to look for a home for these documents.

~~~

For a couple of weeks, the family had been watching the HULU series “the Hardy Boys” since we had been enjoying the original series during family read-aloud time.

The tv series is set in the 1980s and mixed up the original characters … Mrs. Hardy was dead; Aunt Gertrude was missing; Joe and Frank were aged differently (in the books they are close in age teenagers but in the tv series Joe is a precocious pre-teen and Frank is several years older); Callie was now Chet’s girlfriend instead of Frank’s; there was a new character Joe’s age who was a mix of the old Chet and ???; plus a new girl Joe’s age and her policewoman mother.

My recommendation?  If you enjoyed the books, don’t bother.

Current read-aloud is book three of the “Tripods” series by John Christopher.  Mark reads aloud and does character voices.

~~~

It is now 1300 and I would guess that extensive tests etc. are being done.  Paul and I are doing well.  We make a good team.  I did breakfast and he did lunch.  

Update … 1345 … it is septic arthritis and they are on their way home.

And to end this blog …

“One of the most important steps you can take to help calm the storm is to not allow yourself to be taken in a flurry of overwrought emotion or despair – thereby accidentally contributing to the swale and the swirl.”    

— Clarissa Pinkola Estes

 So … ‘til next week …  

3 February …

More thoughts in the time of COVID-19 …

The last few days have been 5-minute days … don’t like the weather? Wait 5 minutes and it’ll change.  The mix has been fog, clouds, rain, wind, snow, sun, melt, etc. etc. etc.  You name it, we’ve had it, except for flooding.  Our house is on a rise at the foot of the meadow and runoff etc. goes around us.

I was up this morning a bit before 0300 for a trip to the loo (I find the term “bathroom” awkward ever since my request in a Cornish pub for directions to the bathroom resulted in this response from a barmaid … “Well luv, that depends on whether you’re a Brit who wants to take a bath or a Yank who wants to use the toilet.”).  

At 3 this morning the slanted north window was clear.  When I got up and went downstairs at 0615 there was about half an inch of snow on the ground covering some icy patches and it is still snowing lightly (at 0930).  We’re being told to expect 3 to 6 inches with this low pressure.  We’ll see.

A neighbor had cleared the upper drive so Kamille is getting out to go to work.  She is from the east coast, where 4 inches of snow is a bad storm, and was having cabin fever.  The car I drive won’t clear more than 2 inches and there is a 7 or 8 foot berm between it and the cleared drive.  However, I’m used to this.

~~

I was finally able to go out to care for the chickens.  The snow was still deep (between 2 and 3 feet after settling) and there was some ice and some collapsing, but I have grippers on my boots and a ski pole for stability and so I tried.  I needed some cardio exercise and was successful for 2 days.

This morning the report is ice with/under the snow so Mark did morning duty for me.  Maybe I’ll do the evening chore. 

Also doing some weight lifting as in bringing in firewood.

Ladies are still being a bit awkward.  The bring-in is only three or four eggs a day.  Oh well … warm will arrive soon.

~~~

Last week I made a couple of batches of herbal salve … one to encourage sleep to be rubbed on the soles of your feet at bedtime (feedback has all been appreciative) and one for the healing of Boo-Boo type injuries.  That one I’ve been using on George and myself for a long time and always have at the ready for grandchildren or anyone else with scratches or scrapes or bruises or minor burns. 

My Israeli friend asked for some to take back with her when she and her husband return to Haifa this month (COVID permitting).  This time I am including the recipes.

~~~

I haven’t been out, as you know, and so my to-be-read books are sitting at the library waiting to be picked up.  I’m finishing the prequel to “Practical Magic” and re-reading a couple of old timers.  But I hope to be able to arrange to get some new ones today.  Mark will be going to the church this afternoon so he may be able to pick them up for me … three mysteries, a fictional take on Tudor England, a philosophical treatise, and a fable by Octavia Butler. 

Those should keep me busy for a week or so.

I spent three days last week watching the new Mystery on PBS Masterpiece, “Miss Scarlet and the Duke”.  Not bad but not as good as some.  I guess it’s time for me to catch up on “Endeavour” and maybe follow-up with “Morse”.  I have a dream of someday wandering the streets and colleges of Oxford. 

Oh well …

~~~

… and here’s a story to end this week …

I hired a plumber to help me restore an old farmhouse, and after he had just finished a rough first day on the job: a flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric drill quit and his ancient one ton truck refused to start.

While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence. On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family. As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands.

When opening the door he underwent an amazing transformation. His face was wreathed in smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss.

Afterward he walked me to the car. We passed the tree and my curiosity got the better of me. I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.

“Oh, that’s my trouble tree,” he replied “I know I can’t help having troubles on the job, but one thing’s for sure, those troubles don’t belong in the house with my wife and the children. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home. Then in the morning I pick them up again.”

“’Funny thing is,” he smiled, “when I come out in the morning to pick ’em up, there aren’t nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before.”

Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance. We all need a Tree!

 So … ‘til next week …